Friday, September 11, 2009

selfish - mementingkan diri sendiri....

for this post...just a simple thing to talk about. last Wednesday, me and my batch had a meeting held at 1600...and the batch with the largest amount of students in the faculty turn out to be so little in the meeting. Less than one third showed up...some of them had a good and acceptable reason not to show up...and the rest? plain selfishness that only hoped others to do the job.

ATTENTION : I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON, SIAPA MAKAN CILI TERASA PEDAS....

the reason of our meeting was to discuss seriously about our showcase next semester. We want to make it grand...we want it to be the best among the best...I'm sure, every batch will plan to do the very same thing...but sometimes, it is ruin by those selfish people. For instance, when our batch leader, Wan-Oboe asked us to show up for meeting, if you excuse yourself for the reason of classes, practice for your conducting/someone else's conducting and can't afford to change the time, not feeling well, family emergencies....those are few of the accepted excuses. BUT...excusing yourself because you think it's too early to have a showcase meeting? too lazy to show up because you don't have class that day? you want to study for your exam? suddenly you decided to practice since you don't have anything better to do? you're too tired to show up? you don't want to do showcase next semester? THOSE are THE SELFISH PEOPLE that I mentioned. let just cut the crap and let me explain here....

TOO EARLY TO HAVE A SHOWCASE MEETING?
>well then, it's either there's something blocking your brain from common sense or you just plain effing idiot. As a matter of fact...it's already late!!! Why? you want to do your showcase in the forum room like last semester???? *owh, how "wonderful"...*

TOO LAZY TO SHOW UP BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO CLASS?
>well this is the dumbest excuse of all...fine, you don't have class, and you don't have cars either to come...HOWEVER, you might want to consider the word SACRIFICE, TOLERANCE and COMMITMENT...so what if you need to take the bus to go to the meeting? Give all the effort that you can to show that you want to be apart of the community...show that you actually CARE about the showcase. If, you already working....and it's Sunday, and suddenly you got a memo that there's a meeting in the office and there's no transport...well guess what? your boss won't give a shit about you lazy to come because you don't have to work that day and your boss certainly won't give a shit if you need to crawl to get to the office either. STOP BEING SO STUPID AND CHILDISH AND MOSTLY...STOP BEING EFFING SELFISH!!!

YOU WANT TO STUDY FOR YOUR EXAM?
>this is another thing...I know, exam is important...well if it's so important...why you want to study it a few hours before exam?? Here's an idea...STUDY IT BEFORE!! you being busy...is not an excuse...like SPM, if you're not ready for Chemistry paper...will the examiners give a shit about it? NO. Again, if you have meeting and you gave reason to your boss that you can't come because you want to study...is that even considered to be an excuse? NO. No matter how busy you are, as a student, you must be able to manage your time well. And besides, those that taking the very same subject with you actually showed up to the meeting and they brought their notes along...so what's your excuse for not showing up? What make you think you deserve a SPECIAL treatment? It's just an unacceptable excuse.

SUDDENLY YOU DECIDED TO PRACTICE SINCE YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO?
>wow...practice is important I know...but most of you people practiced because you had your class in a few minutes/hours...you never bother to hold your instrument any other day. What...you think you're the only one in the BATCH that wants to practice? I want to practice SO BADLY that 24 hours a day doesn't seem to be enough because I had assignments to do as well...not to forget classes...EVERYBODY wants to practice...but if they can show up...then why can't you? I know it's hard to sacrifice...but this is our showcase, don't think our showcase is like a forum...it is much much much more than that. It is the end and the purpose of this whole diploma program. If you like practice so much, then I'm sure you will care about your showcase and you should come and HELP us put up the best showcase ever...

YOU'RE TOO TIRED TO SHOW UP?
>well guess what? EVERYBODY ELSE IS EFFING TIRED AS WELL!!!!! I've been in the faculty from morning till night from Monday to Thursday and half-day on Friday. and every day, I woke up at 6am to take shower and perform my Subuh prayer because at 7am, I need to get my nieces ready for school and give them breakfast and wait for their school bus. I'M TIRED TOO. And don't say that you're the only person that really tired. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT OTHERS BEEN THROUGH...just because you always see them hanging around...does not mean that they had enough rest...despite ANY reason of them being tired...so, THAT "TIRED" EXCUSE is just so stupid that I don't even know how you actually passed your SPM...

YOU DON'T WANT TO DO SHOWCASE NEXT SEMESTER?
>Not a good enough reason either. Some of those who showed up are not planning to do their showcase either...then why can't you show up? Next semester will be a showcase organized by OUR BATCH. and YOU are part of the batch...why can't you help? why can't you give support? you're too good for our batch isn't it?

So please...stop being selfish...because it is an attitude that people really hate...and maybe for once...try think this; if you don't have a friend that stick with you for a long time...then this might be the reason for it...selfishness...
Photobucket

No comments: