Wednesday, December 09, 2009

peace.love.happiness

i want some peace. if world peace is too much to ask, then i would like to ask for faculty peace. i can't take it anymore. everybody is angry. i don't even know which sides is truly, purely guilty anymore. let me try to refresh my memory from what i can understand. a few statement of opinions were made in a blog, the cat is out of the bag and people found out. if it was written by some other people i don't think it will be this chaotic, but considering these people already hated him in the past, so, the effect is actually a double dose. i think this is what happen when people don't learn from their mistakes, instead, they repeat it. i mean, you are free to express your own opinions, there is nothing wrong with that. but before you do, you must know the right way of expressing it. if you are expressing it towards a bunch of sensitive group, then try to find a better words about it. just because you said it nicely, it does not mean you are not being honest. there are many ways to express one opinion. for instance, when you want to say to a person that he/she is not the right one for you. there are many ways to say it. there are the straight forward and painful way which is; "i hate you and i don't want to be with you, ever". or the straight forward but not-so-painful way such as; "i don't think we should see each other anymore. it's never going to work out between us". or the not-so-straight-forward-and-not-so-painful way which is; "you're not a bad person, and i know there are someone out there that deserve you more than i do, which is the reason why i want to end it before the damage gets worse". it carries pretty much the same message but there are so many ways to express it. this concept goes to pretty much everything else that you want to say. which mean, before you say or write something, you should think. try not to make things worse. unfortunately it already did...and removing that post is not going to change anything. and with the new post? it's a good attempt, but unfortunately the fire is not being put out with water...instead with gasoline. the exact same post can be re-written with the same message without the need to exclude any of it can be present in a less controversial way...well of course...unless the original intention was...to put gasoline into the fire instead of water...then a wonderful job is indeed at hand...i am not very sure if people are enjoying this. because i am actually not enjoying it. i wish to have some peace.love.happiness in that imperfect faculty...
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2 comments:

azam-kizzis said...

yup.. well said... there is a lot of ways to express one idea...

congrats for your remarkable writing.. the examples you gave is the one yang paling senang utk difahami...

ble jadi Chekgu.. huhuhu :D

Azam Fadley

Wani said...

haha, tp x minat nk mengajar la.