Saturday, August 13, 2011

Importance


if you fall in love with someone...
and your friends don't like it, or in other word, don't "approve"
which one will it be?
will you force your heart to close and keep your friends happy?
or will you just go for it and hope that if they're your friends, they will somehow come around and try to understand?

or in the other side...

how do you feel...if the friends of the one you fall in love with (whom are also your friends) do not "approve" of you to be with him/her?
will you feel angry? sad?
will you feel like you are ruining friendships between the person you love and his/her friends?

which one you think is more important?
to make your friends happy...or to make yourself happy?

i don't know how it feels like when your friends do not "approve" you to be with someone...
but i do know how it feels like...when the friends of the person you fell in love with didn't "approve" him/her to be with you...even though those people call themselves my friends too...
it does hurts...to know that a group of people think that i am "not good enough" to be with the one i love...
but in the end...i can't please everyone...they just have to deal with it
as selfish as it may sound...what do i get if i please them? they were never there when i need a shoulder to cry on...

but then...this is an old story, it was more than a year ago...
it's probably different now, probably they already changed their perspective...
i don't know, i don't really care, not worth my time...
but i am happy now, and that what really matters
if people don't like it...whatever, not like they can make me happy or anything
:)


*photos from Tumblr

3 comments:

Clarissa said...

If they are really your friends, they won't make you choose; and if they object, they should have a justified reason.

It's good to listen to both sides, because love Does handicap your rationality at times. And your friends might just want you to be careful with your heart.

Cheers!

Wani said...

Well...actually they didn't approve my boyfriend to get in a relationship with me. like I'm such a bad ass girl. at least that's how it made me feel la at that time. but I think their reason was...we just "don't look good" together...and because of that, we can't be together. not really about being careful with the heart...just that they don't like the idea. hahahaha~
probably because we're too opposite, he was kinda the hot, popular, "a little" bad boy in school while me...the nerdy girl who never skip class, get all the assignment done before deadline, and always come early morning to practice violin...so the idea of a popular kid and a nobody nerdy kid to be together is like against their status quo. hahahaha

Clarissa said...

Then just tell them: opposites attract.

As much as we get heartbroken sometimes, following your heart usually never leads you astray. XD

Cheers!